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A must see on sex, love, and relationships!

This past Wednesday me and Sir Jonathan were blessed to have a surprise speaker at our church, Chip Ingram from Living on the Edge ministries. He spoke about Hollywood’s prescription for lasting relationships versus God’s.

Hollywood’s

  1. Find the right person.
  2. Fall in love.
  3. Fix your goals and dreams around this person.
  4. If steps 1-3 don’t work, repeat cycle with someone else.

God’s

  1. Become the right person.
  2. Walk in love
  3. Fix your hope on God (Seek to please Him)
  4. If failure occurs go back to square 1 and ask yourself, “Am I the right person, am I walking in love, etc.

 

This man hits it on the head way better than Sir Jonathan and I ever could, so please give this message a lesson. This is the video from the night he visited our church. It is a must see! Click on the message entitled: Sex, love, and relationships.

http://myeikon.com/teachings/topical-messages/?sid=1064#top

Know Your Worth.

Much love,

Natasha

 

I don’t care what Hollywood says, ladies, You’re Not an object for man’s pleasure

Hollywood can go to hell.

As you can see, I’m a bit hot-headed at the moment. Allow me to rephrase. Hollywood’s ideas concerning women can go to hell. I pray for the salvation of the souls from which these degrading thoughts stem from, but nevertheless, their ideas are absolutely despicable.

“Dang, Natasha, you usin’ some straight up powerful words here.”

I most certainly am because the Holy Spirit of the living God that has dwelt within me from the moment I invited Him inside stirs me to such anger because He too considers the way Hollywood depicts women as–dare I say it–abominable. Think about it, these are His daughters they’re messing with. If you have a loving Father (whose love comes nothing close to God’s), imagine if some men invited him for dinner and then told him several times how they think you’re just an object useful for their own sexual desires and not much more, and that all they wanted to do was bang you until they got tired of you and then moved onto your sister.

WHAT! Your father would be outraged! He’d likely grab a dinner knife and need to be restrained or he’d be in jail for life for murder.

Now consider the God of all creation, who created you out of love, with love, and for love; who says you are marvelous, who when he saw man by himself said it was not good for him to be alone and thus decided to make you as someone suitable to *help* the man; who entrusted you with the great responsibility of housing a child inside of you, protecting and nurturing it until ready to enter the world, who commands the man who marries you to love you as he loves his own self, to not be bitter toward you, to protect and provide for you (as a king would a princess), to not even look after another woman with lust but to enjoy you his wife for all of his days, and to literally die for you if need be.  Imagine how He feels when men so exploit you, His precious and prized creation. (Now, this also goes for women who objectify men because there are some who do this as well, and all of God’s creation is prized in His sight).

Well, it’s about time women stop buying into the bull-crap, and start buying into what the God of the universe says about them. It is time to get to know God so you can truly discover your incalculable value and stop settling for guys who would tell you you ain’t worth nothin’ but a few drinks or a movie.  It is time to toss those Cosmopolitan magazines that on every wicked cover shout that you’re just a sex-toy in the trash and time to pick up a Bible that says you’re a princess who is to be loved and cherished, and is to to have a man commit his very life to you before he can have access to your body which isn’t some object for pleasure, but a sacred temple.

These aren’t Natasha’s made-up words and ideas, this is what the Inspired Word of God has to say about every woman.

Hollywood’s lies end right here. Share this truth with every woman you know. For you are all worth so much more than these liars make you out to be. Be free from the bondage of their demeaning conditioning in the name of Jesus Christ and be loosed to walk as the beautiful princess He created you to be in Him.

Know Your Worth.

Natasha

Can someone let Rihanna, Jay Z, Kanye, and Gaga know that they are not God?

All I gotta ask is, did any of them choose to exist? Which one of them created themself? So if they didn’t even ask to be here, what makes them think they can mock God and claim to be God? They could be here today, and then gone tomorrow–their lives are just dust, like the rest of us on this earth. Money and fame got some people straight up delusional, soundin’ like they should be in an asylum. I mean seriously, when you think about it, how in the world would you react if I approached you and said–in all seriousness–that I was God? You’d laugh in my face, or keep on walkin’, yet it’s like we don’t hear when these artists claim to be God so openly in their music. No one stops and says, “Hold up, homie, you’re not God, you’re just a human being like me, susceptible to sickness, and most certaintly death.” So since no one is saying anything, I decided I would. Rihanna, you’re not God. Jay Z, you’re not God, Kanye, you’re not God, and Gaga, you’re not God, so please humble yourselves before He does.

My blogs: Oldest to Newest

Once upon a time I was a love-hungry man-eater.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/06/17/man-eater-lets-say-i-was-a-love-hungry-man-eater-eventually/

I became all things to all men so that by all means I might snag some.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/06/18/i-became-all-things-to-all-men-so-that-by-all-means-i-might-snag-some/

Ladies, know your worth!

http://wp.me/s1yNGE-98

Ladies: Close your legs.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/06/22/ladies-close-your-legs/

“I’ve never felt like this for anyone before.”

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/06/30/ive-never-felt-like-this-for-anyone-before/

Now I’m preaching to the prego baby mamas. Oh, and non-virgins too.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/05/now-im-preaching-to-the-pregobaby-mamas-oh-and-non-virgins-too/

What you want in a man questionaire. Place your order!

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/11/alright-ladies-what-you-want-in-a-man-questionaire-place-your-order/

The lust of my life.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/15/the-lust-of-my-life/

Ex-boyfriend drama

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/18/ex-boyfriend-drama/

Break-ups and the road to healing.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/20/break-ups-and-the-road-to-healing/

Bad Boys vs Good Guys

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/24/bad-boys-vs-good-guys/

Got some toxic thoughts that are leading you to toxic behavior?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/07/27/got-some-toxic-thoughts-that-are-leading-you-to-toxic-behavior/

My heart-break journals during and after.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/01/one-of-my-many-heartbreaks-during-after/

This is what love from a man should sound like.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/06/lecrae-i-love-you-feat-chris-lee-dj-primo-remix-happy-b-day-suhaylee/

Gentlemen letting the little boys know how to treat a lady

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/06/heres-some-gentlemen-lettin-the-little-boys-know-how-to-treat-a-lady/

Songs to inspire hope and healing for your hurting heart

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/08/songs-to-inspire-hope-and-healing-for-your-hurting-heart/

“Why men love b*tches.” Why this is a lie.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/10/why-men-love-bches-why-this-is-a-lie/

The never-ending battle between Spirit and Flesh

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/13/the-never-ending-battle-between-spirit-and-flesh/

Blast from the past (those pesky exes)

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/27/blast-from-the-past/

Ladies: Enough is enough!

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/08/31/ladies-enough-is-enough/

I’m not a princess. How do I undo what I’ve become?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/03/im-not-a-princess-how-do-i-undo-what-ive-become/

Will a real gentleman please stand up? Hello? Is anyone there?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/06/will-a-real-gentleman-please-stand-up-hello-is-anyone-there/

I can’t eat and look at what she’s wearing.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/08/i-cant-eat-and-look-at-what-shes-she-wearing/

Even Christian girls are selling themselves short.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/11/even-christian-girls-are-selling-themselves-short/

Every home-wrecker has her story.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/13/every-adulteress-has-her-story/

Saw litmitless last night. Are girls really that easy?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/14/saw-limitless-last-night-are-girls-really-that-easy/

If you think love is simply an emotion, here’s a wake-up call.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/16/if-you-think-love-is-simply-an-emotion-heres-a-wake-up-call/

“If you love me, you’ll hve sex with me.”-your boyfriend

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/19/if-you-love-me-youll-have-sex-with-me-your-boyfriend/

“How far can I go with my boyfriend?”

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/20/how-far-can-i-go-with-my-boyfriend/

Ladies, for crying out loud, can you be a little mysterious?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/24/ladies-for-crying-out-loud-can-you-be-a-little-mysterious/

“I’m a loser because my peer said so.”

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/09/30/im-a-loser-because-my-peer-said-so/

“Why do I still have feelings for my ex?”

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/10/03/i-still-have-feelings-for-my-ex/

“This person will make me happy.”

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/10/10/this-person-will-make-me-happy/

“I’m ten and I pose topless like my grown-up media icons do.”

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/10/17/dont-grow-up-too-fast-youth-isnt-something-you-can-buy-back/

Can your affection be bought?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/11/01/can-your-affection-be-bought/

Object of sexual abuse to a princess of incluable worth.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/11/16/object-of-sexual-abuse-to-a-princess-of-incalculable-worth/

Princess, gotta man who’s afraid of marriage?

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/11/28/princess-gotta-man-whos-afraid-of-marriage/

After seeing Breaking Dawn, raise your hand if you want an Edward.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/12/05/after-seeing-breaking-dawn-raise-your-hand-if-you-want-an-edward/

Be submissive to my husband? Kill me now.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/12/20/be-submissive-to-my-husband-kill-me-now/

For my husband.

http://betterthanedward.com/2011/12/23/for-my-husband/

Husbands, want to win your wife’s heart back?

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/01/03/husbands-want-to-win-your-wives-hearts-back/

A young man shares his views on sex. Ladies, a must see!

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/01/18/a-young-man-shares-his-views-on-sex-ladies-a-must-see/

“You’re not the same man I fell in love with.”

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/01/30/youre-not-the-same-man-i-fell-in-love-with/

If there’s a God, why does He let bad things happen to good people?

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/02/11/if-theres-a-god-why-does-he-let-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/

R-E-S-P-E-C-T, Ladies find out what it should mean to you.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/03/25/r-e-s-p-e-c-t-ladies-find-out-what-it-should-mean-to-you-3/

What man can love you like this?

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/03/28/what-man-can-love-you-like-this/

Witnessing Furious Love

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/04/01/witnessing-furious-love/

I hate porn.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/04/04/i-hate-porn-2/

CONTROVERSY ALERT! I don’t hate homosexuals, but I don’t agree with the lifestyle.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/04/10/controversy-alert-i-dont-hate-homosexuals-but-i-dont-agree-with-the-lifestyle/

Do you have a guy on your mind more often than not? You got a problem, girl: you’re setting yourself up for a heartbreak

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/04/13/do-you-have-a-guy-on-your-mind-more-often-than-not-you-got-a-problem-girl-youre-setting-yourself-up-for-a-heartbreak/

Ignorant Christians.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/04/20/ignorant-christians-27/

My Holy Ghost celebrity hit-list

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/05/03/my-holy-ghost-celebrity-hit-list/

Before God I was…

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/05/09/before-god-i-was/

There’s only one cure for loneliness, and it isn’t popularity.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/05/15/theres-only-one-cure-for-loneliness-and-it-isnt-popularity/

All right, I’m annoyed. Love is NOT an emotion, people!

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/06/29/all-right-im-annoyed-love-is-not-an-emotion-people-17/

There’s a girl reading this who is crying right now.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/04/theres-a-girl-reading-this-who-is-crying-right-now/

Lifestyle of the rich and the famous:drug-related deaths” A list of notable people who have died from drug-related causes

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/08/lifestyle-of-the-rich-and-the-famousdrug-related-deaths-a-list-of-notable-people-who-have-died-from-drug-related-causes/

The day I married my dream prince.

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/10/the-day-i-married-my-dream-prince-27-2/

Abortion: The reality of what is being done to these unborn children

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/16/abortion-the-reality-of-what-is-being-done-to-these-unborn-children/

Good friends vs Bad ones

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/16/a-friend-loves-at-all-times/

America’s modern-day Holocaust

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/17/americas-modern-day-holocaust/

It’s okay to kill a child in the womb when…

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/18/there-are-alternatives-to-abortion-please-dont-do-it/

The day my Dream Prince proposed

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/18/the-day-my-dream-prince-proposed/

Chivalry hasn’t died ladies, and if you think it has, you’re with the wrong guy!

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/22/chivalry-hasnt-died-ladies-and-if-you-think-it-has-youre-with-the-wrong-guy/

Courtship vs Dating vlog

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/27/courtship-vs-dating-vlog/

Dating and baggage are best friends

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/07/30/dating-and-baggage-are-best-friends/

Christian guys who court interview teaser is now on youtube!

http://betterthanedward.com/2012/08/26/christian-guys-who-court-interview-teaser-is-now-on-youtube/

 

Lifestyle of the rich and the famous:drug-related deaths” A list of notable people who have died from drug-related causes

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_drug-related_deaths

The list is literally too long to post, but here’s a few.

Jennifer Lyn Jackson 1969–2010 Playboy Playmate Heroin overdose. [215]
Michael Jackson 1958–2009 Pop singer Cardiac arrest. Personal physician administered lethal dose of propofol along with lorazepam, diazepam and midazolam. [216]
Peter Jackson 1964–1997 Rugby league player Heroin overdose. [217]
Joyce Jameson 1932–1987 Actress Overdose of unspecified pills. Suicide. [218]
Steven Ronald Jensen 1959–2005 Musician (The Vandals) Unspecified prescription drug overdose. [219]
Anissa Jones 1958–1976 Actress Overdose of barbiturates, cocaine, quaaludes, and PCP. Accidental. [220]
Brian Jones 1942–1969 Musician (The Rolling Stones). Drowning under the influence of alcohol and drugs. [221]
Chloe Jones 1975–2005 Pornographic actress Prescription drug overdose. Accidental. [222]
Rob Jones, aka The Bass Thing 1964–1993 Musician (The Wonder Stuff). Sources report contradictory information which include: heart problems,[223] heart attack potentially caused by heroin,[224] or simply “drug related causes”.[225]
Russell Jones, aka Ol’ Dirty Bastard. 1968–2004 Rapper Overdose of cocaine and tramadol. Accidental. [226]
Janis Joplin 1943–1970 Musician Heroin overdose. [227]

K

Name Life Profession Cause of death Reference
John Kahn 1947–1996 Musician (Jerry Garcia Band) Heroin overdose. [228]
Chris Kanyon 1970–2010 Professional wrestler Antidepressants overdose. Suicide. [229][230]
Phil Katz 1962–2000 Computer programmer Acute pancreatic bleeding caused by chronic alcoholism [231]
David Kennedy 1955–1984 University drop-out Overdose of cocaine, Demerol, and Mellaril. [232]
Beverly Kenney 1932–1960 Singer Alcohol and Seconal overdose. Suicide. [233]
Bernard Kettlewell 1907–1979 Lepidopterist, medical doctor Unspecified drug overdose. Accidental. [234]
David Kelly 1944–2003 Weapons expert Consumed around 30 dextropropoxyphene pills. Disputed suicide. [235]
Jack Kerouac 1922–1969 Author Cirrhosis, caused by a lifetime of heavy drinking. [236][237]
Dorothy Kilgallen 1913–1965 Journalist Fatal combination of alcohol and barbiturates. Whether it was suicide, accidental or the result of foul play is undetermined. [238]
Richard Charles Knellar, aka Dickie Pride 1941–1969 Singer Sleeping pill overdose. [239]
Thomas Kinkade 1958–2012 Painter Acute ethanol and diazepam intoxication. [240]
Arthur Koestler 1905–1983 Author Sleeping pill overdose. Suicide. [241]
John Kordic 1965–1992 Hockey player Unspecified drug overdose. [242]

Sometimes fame isn’t all it’s cut out to be. Trip Lee’s song is brought to mind…

 It’s cool to like fairytales Until you try to live inside of ‘em, that’s where we fail The media pushin’ death and they do it very well Man, who woulda thought that obituaries sale? Look, you’re livin’ in a dream

Open up your eyes, things ain’t always what they seem

Reality ain’t always what we found up on the screen

They got bait, in they hooks, they got rhymes full of schemes, it’s fantasy.
Fantasy, masquerade and mansions

Smokin’ lies, but there is never light within us

The smiles full of envy, a full house that’s empty

Once the night is up, it’s never enough

I used to want fame: that was what I chased after, never considering how selfish I was. It wasn’t until Jesus woke me up that my heart changed and I no longer craved that lifestyle. ”There’s a way that seems right to a man, but it ends in death.” Don’t let the smoke and lights blind you from the reality of a party-hard lifestyle. In the end, it never fails to destroy. There’s been too many examples in Hollywood for you to fall into the same trap. Don’t be another statistic. Fight the culture. Be different. Rebel. The only way you can have strength to overcome is when you take a stand for what’s real, what’s true.

We’ve all lied, lusted after someone we weren’t married to, used God’s name as a cuss word or in vain. We’ve all broken the ten commandments. Because we messed up, because we are imperfect and stained with the guilt of our mistakes, God cannot accept us into heaven. We rightly deserve hell because we’ve all gone astray, done what was wrong, wronged someone else, and ultimately, wronged God. But God loves us so much, even while we were yet sinning against Him, He sent His only Son to die in our place, brutally upon a rugged cross designed for criminals. He did that so you wouldn’t doubt that He loves you desperately and would do anything to get your attention, your affection. If you merely believe, which means trust, that Jesus died and rose for you, and turn away from your sins and run into His arms, He will grant you access to heaven, and more importantly, an eternal relationship with Him and His Father. Once you do that, and begin to know this God who visited our world in human form over 2,000 years ago, you will, by His grace, be able to stand against the pressures of Hollywood and the “Fame-Monster” within. Know that you’re not alone, and know your incalcuable worth in the sight of the God of the universe.

There’s only one cure for loneliness, and it isn’t popularity.

Flipping through the pages of a Billboard magazine I don’t remember subscribing to, I see lots of brightly dressed celebrities with large blue wigs and dyed pink hair–their get-ups resembling that of a super-hero film set in the seventies. I see several different photos of some of the same artists–each one their apparel getting all the more flamboyant–and it suddenly hits me: these poor souls are just desperate for attention. Any will do, be it positive or negative, commending or defaming, as long as someone is noticing them. These people crave it, live for it. They’re like fiends who can’t get enough strangers yelling their name’s and taking photos of them. They hope this will satisfy the hunger in their hearts, the gaping hole that eats at them every day, enlarging before they go to sleep at night. But it isn’t working. So they turn to drugs, to sex, to things that bring their bodies momentary pleasure. After a while, this too fails them. They think, ‘I know what I need to do: clean up my act, and get married.’ Most of the time, it only takes a year (sometimes even less than that), to realize even this doesn’t satisfy. So they tell themselves, ‘Wait! I know what will put an end to this burning desire: a family!’ They have a kid, or two, or six, and although the hole that consumes them is slightly numbed, it still isn’t pacified. “I don’t understand,” they say. “I have everything! Fame, riches, and a family. Why do I still feel this way? What could possibly be missing?” They can’t figure it out, or they refuse to cry out to the one they’ve ignored all their life, so despair consumes them, and they end their life.

This is the story of too many of them. I don’t need to say their names, we all know the famous suicides who had the entire world in their hands, and found it to not be enough. But I want to prevent those who are still with us today. The ones heading down that same road of destruction, that same empty road whose promises, in the end, never deliver the needed satisfaction.

Dear, Lady Gaga, I bring a message of hope. There is One that satisfies like the things of this world can’t. There is One who takes your brokenness, and pieces you back together again. There is One who gives you a never-ending supply of the most powerful force in the universe and in heaven itself–unconditional love. Pure love, untainted by the lies. A love that knows every sin you’ve ever committed, yet longs to forgive you for each one of them. His arms are open wide, He doesn’t care if you’ve murdered, lied, cheated, stolen, abused, blasphemed–if you will just turn to Him. Why gain the whole world, yet lose your own soul? Why live for the temporal, when your life is in His hands, and He decides when it ends? Why ignore judgement, as if you will escape it? Do you not know that God, “is a consuming fire,” and, “it is a terrible thing to fall into the hands of the living God”? Demons tremble at the power of His name, darkness flees from His presence, it cannot stand against it. He is more powerful than everything you cling to, and if you’re not on His side, in the end, you will lose. Love cries out, it shouts from the mountains and echoes in the hills, “Come to Me, let Me make you new.”

Despite what you’ve encountered in this fallen world, His love for you is unchanging. Every second He grants you life, He gives you opportunity to come to Him, to surrender to His love. He brings glory and honor, if you only knew. The world and all its glory is fading, but the glory of Jesus Christ never fades.

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but it’s path ends in death.”

Choose life, choose love. He’s waiting.

My Holy Ghost Celebrity Hit List

So, I have a Holy Ghost Hit list (i.e. the people I pray come to Christ), and I have a few celebs that I pray for daily. Stefani Joanne (Lady Gaga), Jared Leto, Kim Kardashian, Katy Perry, Ryan Murphy and his casting director Robert Ulrich, along with his choreographer, Zach Woodle, The Jonas Brothers, and Beyonce. I’ve prayed for many celeb’s salvation, but these are the ones I pray for every day. I was wondering, if you’re a Christian, do you have any celebs on your Holy Ghost Hit list? I think it’s important to pray for celebrities, because when the flashing lights stop, and the screaming fans are gone, they are just as lost as anyone else without Christ. So, if you’re a believer and pray for celebrities, make my day and please share which ones God has laid on your heart.